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December 27th 2005, 09:08
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sorry to hear about this Nick...it sucks to lose someone you care about
 I know what you are going thru right now... I just lost my dog this past month and even though he was not a human being, he was still a friend and will be sorely missed... it just takes time 
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December 27th 2005, 13:53
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Joe,
When I was 15 my dog got a sticker in her ear so we took her to the vet. The sedated my dog and while she was out moved her wrong and twisted her stomach. When she got home she went to the toilet and drank water. Apearantly her espagus ruptured and I got up in the morning to take a piss and tripped over her body. What I saw Saturday reminded me a lot of that experience. It sucks when you lose soemone that that you care about.
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December 31st 2005, 14:21
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Sorry about your loss.
Healing takes time. I hope everything works out, and if you wanna chat I'm on yahoo.
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December 31st 2005, 16:14
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Thanks Mikey, here is what the local newspaper wrote about the crash.
http://www.theunion.com/article/20051230/NEWS/112300108 I am feeling a little better, he will live on in our memories.
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January 13th 2006, 02:21
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**Update**
I stayed up in Grass Valley at his brothers for two weeks till the service that was on the 7th. It was a very nice service, I said a few kind words and the family asked me to be a pall bearer. The following morning I hoped on my bike and prayed that I make it to Ridgecrest in one piece. I did, but as soon as I got back into a bit of normacy the flashbacks, insomnia, depression got real bad. I'm a full time student right now, so I don't have health insurance, but I am a war vet. I went to a VA Hospitol and they are going to help. I'm on prozac for the depression, and I'll be seeing a PTSD specialist type to see if I have it, if I do then I'll get couseling. I'm finding out that most people don't want to hear or think about what I witnessed, and also most people have no idea how to react to me. I kind of feel alone, even my good friends up there don't know how traumatized I got. Nick
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January 14th 2006, 06:33
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Reading this sends me back to 9th grade. My best freind had a party at his house while his dad was out of town. He was hot for a girl in our class and she was at the party but wasn't hot for him. I guess they talked and he drank a few beers, went upstairs and put his dads 357 in his ear and ended everything. We heard the shot and the rest was a mess of blood, hair, people screaming and crying, police, ambulance, questioning, etc. It was the hard on me and others for a long time. You are on the right track seeking help. You should also find something to keep you mind on (school or a project). You might even need to put the bike away for a while if it is a flashback trigger. The sharp edge of the trammatic end should dull as time goes on. Hang in there.
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